当孩子问“我为什么要好好学习？”你的回答很重要
<section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="font-size:16px;font-family:微软雅黑;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p><br></p><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="_135editor" powered-by="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; line-height: 2;"><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">我们生活中常常遇到这样的情况，孩子学习动力不足，厌学、偷懒是常态，或者明明很努力，可成绩就是不见起色。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">作为家长的，看在眼里急在心里，软硬兼施，奈何总是事倍功半，身心俱疲。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">相信很多家长都想过一个问题：“到底该不该逼孩子学习？”</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">别急，等你看完这篇文章，自然就会有一个答案。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" src="https://mpt.135editor.com/mmbiz_jpg/icB0yCLh6LJugNSRnE6IRa1GOY8b1yjv4VUREycbWU3dxPSGZz1a3tWcyB4O2VY7icvjC0wWG57RaUkLFsderRYQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important;"> </p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">我的发小大朋就是个活生生的例子。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">他青春期时顽劣乖张，刚开始只是不写作业，后来甚至一连几天都不来上课。理所当然地顶着“学渣”的头衔，每天浑浑噩噩，得过且过。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">而他的父母沉迷于打麻将，很少管教。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">结果大朋高中没读完就辍学了，前几天同学聚会上见到他，他自己也坦言现在的生活很不如意。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">受限于学历，始终找不到一份体面的工作。没有固定收入，常常需要家里接济。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">买不起房，更不敢结婚，年末了大家都买好了车票准备回家，而他甚至连车票钱都拿不出来。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">他不仅后悔当初没有好好学习，更对父母的信马由缰有些怨恨。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">的确，学习不苦，不学习的人生才苦。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">现在不引导孩子学习，将来等待他的必然是一种粗粝的人生。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" src="https://mpt.135editor.com/mmbiz_jpg/icB0yCLh6LJufGZLLNAuSibewanmzCZmZebpn1G8EWicGMRKHsVvAW1cAFAvOAJic7r60kicStXU1KLzRQTDupCvhBg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important;"> </p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" src="https://mpt.135editor.com/mmbiz_jpg/icB0yCLh6LJugNSRnE6IRa1GOY8b1yjv440TK8nHWzNlofIhUoAd9e7cFG727Be37jDtnSXBPeRibsicIvbT61abw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">优秀的孩子，从不会有太轻松的生活。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">就拿黄磊的女儿多多来说吧，大家经常可以看到黄磊在微博上晒出女儿读书学习的照片。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">多多小小年纪就是个不折不扣的“学霸”。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">小学二年级时就翻译了人生中的第一本外文书籍《圣诞老爸的来信》，现在11岁的她，已经翻译了3本书籍了。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">平时无论走到哪，都是书不离手，堪称是“别人家孩子”的典范。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">并且，多多不仅文学功底过硬，数学成绩也不赖，可谓是文理兼修。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">有句话说得好，<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">有见识的父母都在带孩子学习，而没见识的父母都在带孩子打王者荣耀。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">引导孩子爱上学习，才是为人父母最该承担起的责任。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">最近外媒还曝光了英国乔治王子的课表。一个5岁的孩子，从一年级开始就要学习数学、英语、法语、科学、历史、地理、编程、体操、游泳、击剑等十多种科目。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">人们常常羡慕富贵家庭孩子的出生，却没看到他们背后的付出。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">欲戴王冠，必承其重。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);">越是优秀的家庭，对孩子的要求也越高。因为他们明白，世上绝不会有“一路躺赢”。趁早引导孩子学习，才是对他人生最大的负责。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102);"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" src="https://mpt.135editor.com/mmbiz_jpg/icB0yCLh6LJufGZLLNAuSibewanmzCZmZe84AgRErjpMt6hBnqUdVYStbwhFW8tmUNb36OKzib0uuD7OCKXc6OwQw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important;"> </p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">选自：十点读书</p></section></section></section></section></section></section><p></p> 请我吃饭吗？？？ 周周请我吃饭吗？？？
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